Scenario # 4
You Can Trust Her, She's a Professional


Sophia is a 34 year old professional Catholic manager. She supervises nearly 20 employees in her department. The company she works for has a very open policy toward Christians. There is even a Christian bible study that meets in the building once a week.

Sophia has no interest in joining, but has heard some anti-Catholic rhetoric being spouted at the water fountain this week. Having read the latest issue of Envoy, she knows just how to counteract the apostasy, but she wishes not to disturb the favorable Christian atmosphere in which she works. What should she do?
What would you do?


Here's a few responses from readers like you!

The answer is easy. The application is hard. Being a witness to the Truth of Christ in Catholicism is more important that the job. It is Sophia's moral obligation to defend Catholicism because she is called to defend Christ in his Church. That does not mean she should join the meeting or bring up the subject at the water fountain just to blast them out of the water by pointing out their error. It is possible she should join the group and share the Catholic perspective on Scripture. Or, she should bring up the subject with the water fountain "spouters" by asking what and why. This give's Sophia the opportunity to share the truth about Catholicism. If done in a kind and sharing spirit, Sophia should be able to do this without upsetting the workplace. Sophia should have good people skills since she is manager. Sophia should pray about it and put a little trust in the talents God has given her. If it does end up costing her job, there is no doubt God will provide her with what she needs, possibly a better workplace!
Greg
Via E-Mail
Sophia should say nothing. No one asked for Sophia's opinion. It is impolite to interrupt someone else's discussion and to start telling people they are wrong. Her remarks would not be very welcome.

If some asked her opinion or if she was a part of the group, it would be okay for her to give her opinion. However, she is not obligated to do so.

Chris

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I happen to be a 36-year-old professional Catholic manager. I also supervise 19 employees and consultants. In fact, I attend a multi-denominational Bible Study once a week at work. There have been several occassions where misconceptions about Catholic teaching (i.e. Purgatory) have arisen. For the most part, it has been received well when I bring up the Catholic interpretation of Scripture. When it has not been received well, I go to my apologetics sources (Catholic Answeres, EWTN, etc.) and leave printed material at the interested party's desk or mailbox. Then I pray like crazy! I have to be more cognizant of possible law suits where my own staff is involved--but they are very understanding Christians and are not threatened by my Catholic input.
Mary
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First of all, if they are spouting anti-Catholic bigotted stuff, is it really a Christian working atmosphere? Secondly, I would join the group, and, without being pushy or rude, gently guide the reading towards the correct points. Innocently saying things like, "I see what you mean, but I am confused because on book such and such, verse such and such it says the following..., how do we correlate the
two? Perhaps we should delve more deeply into the issue". This might at least spark some friendly debate. The only danger with this approach is that you better know the Bible, otherwise you could find yourself in a pickle, knowing that what you are defending is true, but not being able to express why it is so!
Mei-Li
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I've been in a similar situation as the one Sophia experienced and I sort of have mixed emotions about this particular scenario. On one hand, I would look forward to involving myself in the group's Christian Bible study to attempt to insert the Catholic position on certain beliefs. I wouldn't want to pass up an opportunity to evangelize (or catechize), especially when I have enough confidence in the subject matter. It would also be a learning opportunity for me to see how non-Catholics establish their views. On the other hand, I might want to avoid the frustration of not being able to convince anyone as to why our faith is based on sound biblical doctrine, realizing from past experience that their minds are already made up. I remember the words of St. Francis De Sales, that even though God uses man as instruments, we don't convert people, God does. I guess I would console myself by not worrying so much about others, leaving that up God, and reflecting on the words in Luke 12 : 48, concerning the master's return . . ."When much has been given a man, much will be required of him". . .
Ricahrd
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One way Sophia can put a quick end to the anti-Catholic whispering is to join the Christian Bible study and be prepared to answer the inevitable questions regarding her faith which are sure to arise. Her joining this group, if nothing else, will give lie to the idea that Catholicism is somehow an "unbiblical" religion, or that Catholics "don't read the Bible." I had a similiar experience at my workplace where we, too, have a weekly Bible study. (When I was still an evangelical Protestant I even led it for about 2 years.) One day recently, soon after my reversion at the beginning of one of our studies, I told the group that I had a testimony I wanted to share. For the next hour I both shared my testimony of why I returned to Catholicism and fielded questions from those attending (none of whom were themselves Catholic). They asked the usual questions one comes to expect e.g."Why do you pray to Mary?" "What is purgatory all about?" etc. As much as possible I tried to answer their questions by quoting a scripture so they can see for themselves that Catholic doctrine and scripture coincide rather than contradict. Since that day I've not had anyone ask further questions (except for the moderator, that is. He wanted to know if he could borrow my copy of "Surprised By Truth" so he could read it, too!).
Dennis Embo
Raleigh, NC
I would write a detailed letter to the mediator of the group stating that many false truths are out there on this site and the integrity/honesty of the site will be compromised without some sort of clear statement and a clear,clean, closure on all the half truths. I would make certain to use the scriptural references that non catholics need to see and I would run it by my parish priest first to make sure I have represented our faith properly....it's a battlefield out there and we have to use the proper weapons to defend our faith..the first church.
James
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