What Would You Do?
Fighting the Falsehoods at the Fountain

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Scenario:
Sophia, age thirty-four, is a professional Catholic manager. She supervises nearly twenty employees in her department. The company she works for has an open policy toward Christians. There's even a Christian Bible study that meets in the building once a week.
Sophia has no interest in joining, but she's heard some anti-Catholic rhetoric being spouted at the water fountain this week. Having read the latest issue of Envoy, she knows just how to counteract the apostasy, but she doesn't want to disturb the favorable Christian atmosphere in which she works. What should she do? What would you do?
Sophia has an obligation to the Church to right any wrongs that may harm our designated task of bringing the Word Incarnate to the world. She may need to reexamine her definition of a Christian workplace. Christians don't engage in idle gossip that only serves to hurt and alienate people from one another.

Also, Sophia should attend one of those Thursday night meetings with a well-thought-out agenda. This agenda should include a list of common misconceptions concerning the Catholic faith and a short history of the Church. Her demeanor should be pleasant and informative.

She should encourage questions and give appropriate answers. Sophia should have literature, including copies of Envoy Magazine, available for their perusal. This would satisfy her responsibilities to the Church. This would also ensure a truly Christian atmosphere in which to work.
Dolores Chadwick, via email
Learn, learn, learn. The more she learns about her faith and Sacred Scripture, the better off she is at defending herself as a Catholic (and defending the Faith). To put it lightly, they smell fear.

As good a magazine as Envoy is, it is only a beginning. She will need to read the Bible. She must become familiar with it and understand that it is truth. When the Bible is presented as truth, what they say about Catholicism really doesn't hold water. She will need to be careful when approaching these situations. They (usually) know the Bible better than we do and often quote Scripture out of context. I always make it a point to read the context before and after quoted Scripture to find out what they were talking about. In doing so I usually find error in their statements.
Marcelino Hernandez, via email
Fortitude up, Sofia! Time to pull out her mighty sword of anti-heresy and correct her brothers and sisters with love! She should go up to the fountain, smiling, and mention that she is a Catholic and that what they were saying about Catholicism is a common misunderstanding.

She will then proceed to slice, dice, and julienne their anti-Catholic rhetorical nonsense with the truth! "Peace be with you," she says as she walks away without any further consideration. Tune in next time when Sofia encounters Dr. Goodfeel and his dreaded "warm fuzzies" . . .
Randy D'Agostini, via email
I managed twenty employees, and this can be tricky. First, you must kindly refute any untruth you hear at the time that you hear it. If you don't know the answer (but you do know it's not true), tell the person you will get that information for him.

I would not join the group. Too difficult to mix your religious faith with the authority of being boss. Always supervise with Christ in your heart, but remember that many do not share your faith and would love the opportunity to belittle or undermine your faith.
Via email
I experienced a similar situation and am happy to share my thoughts. The only difference is that my employer is a large organization with twelve hundred people at my location, and the organization, while not anti-religion, is not very Christian, either. Most of the group was Protestant - Baptists and other Evangelicals mainly. I was the only regularly attending Catholic at the weekly gatherings, and the only middle management member. Controversy was avoided to a large extent, focusing more on what Christians have in common than on the differences of our denominations.

As time went on a Seventh-Day Adventist joined. He seemed to be in line with the group but began to show his real self after a couple of months. He, as a front line supervisor, began to discipline employees in his unit who did not agree with everything he said. He initiated rumors about those in other departments.

As a Catholic, I became the prime target. Rumors turned into vicious allegations. He is an African American, and I am an Irishman. Finally it got a little too heated and the other black male, a Baptist, confronted him and let him know he was a hypocrite, liar, and a poor example of a Christian.

All hell broke loose. The Baptist and I were accused of racism and fraud. These accusations were made through a vice president who is an atheist.

I have never been pulled through such a keyhole in my life. In the end all allegations were dropped, and my Baptist friend and I were cleared. But it did not end there. To get away from the pressure put on me and others in the group we disbanded (though we still meet after work), and several transferred to other departments, with decreases in salary.

In the end I am proud that I stood my ground as a Catholic Christian. If a similar group formed again I would join in. I believe we have an obligation to speak the truths of our faith, even if they are not popular with our audience. Jesus did not make all He came into contact with happy with His message, and neither will we.

To make a long answer short, don't be afraid to confront those who do not speak the truth. Short-term consequences are far outweighed by the fruits of remaining faithful and vocal.
Via email
Sophia should join the Bible study group and defend the faith from the Catholic point of view. As for disturbing the Christian atmosphere at work, it has already been disturbed by anti-Catholic rhetoric at the water fountain. Her being a professional manager should also make her opinions respected by the other employees. There would be no further wayward words at the water fountain.

If I heard anti-Catholic conversation, I would first research the actual source of the information and defend my faith in the Catholic Church. I am currently reading Karl Keating's book Catholicism and Fundamentalism and I recommend it to all the "Sophias" out there in a similar situation.

Adriana Renaud, via email
Sophia should feel free and open to share her views just as much as any other Christian. However, the worst thing she could do is to charge into the Bible study (which she doesn't attend regularly and doesn't know anything about really) announcing her status as Catholic and righteously defending the Catholic Church. Even if she corrected their mistaken views, that would only make them feel attacked and may lessen their opinion of Catholics, while increasing their belief that Catholics are self-righteous, misled, etc. Plus, even if it worked, it would only be a temporary change of attitude toward Catholicism, when there is the opportunity for a long-term change!

If I were Sophia, I would pray for my coworkers to be more open to the Catholic faith. (Rosaries or novenas always help, I find!) Next, I would not be afraid to let others know about my faith, and without attacking I would share it with them when the issue comes up. Why be quiet about the best faith on earth set up by Jesus Christ Himself?

Finally, I would wait till the next time this subject (or similar subjects) came up in conversation. Issues she hears about in the Bible study will probably show up in other daily conversations. Study up on Catholic apologetics for times where you might be left unclear about Catholicism, and let God do His thing. After all, this is His church, and if you're asking Him to use you to defend it, He probably will.

But remember, a humble faith is stronger than a defiant one! Let God's love work through you, and it will. (More time spent in prayer will give you a greater understanding of this as well.) If anything, Sophia will find that her coworkers will begin to question their stereotypes of Catholicism, based on Sophia's love of Jesus and her ready answers to their questions.
Amy Labataille, via email

Next Scenario:
John and Marilyn are committed homeschooling Catholics, well acquainted with the apologetics of their faith. They've just moved to a sleepy little town in the Bible Belt. Marilyn has been an active member of a Catholic homeschoolers group for years and was looking forward to joining the local support group. But the only group in town requires that members sign a "Statement of Faith" that includes assent to "the inerrancy, sufficiency and authority of the Holy Bible as the only inspired word of God."

Their new friends all know they are Catholic and are encouraging John and Marilyn to go ahead and join anyway. They're not sure what to do. What would you do?


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