A Well-Placed
Friend
Jesus answers our
prayers, even if we don't ask Him personally.
When I was a young
child, my parents, on a few special occasions, invited a priest of
Opus Dei over to our home for dinner with our family. Those
dinners bring back the fondest memories, marked as they were by
the warmth and light — human, intellectual and spiritual —
which the priests of Opus Dei possess.
Founded in 1928, by
Father Josemaria Escrivá de Balaguer, Opus Dei provides a path by
which lay people can achieve sanctity in the middle of the secular
world. Where, two centuries earlier, St. Francis of DeSales
preached a way to holiness based on spiritualizing one’s
material life, Escrivá taught that the vast majority of lay
people could achieve sanctity by materializing the spiritual life.
In other words: wherever you work — in the lab, factory,
academy, courtroom, at a computer, or at a podium giving the State
of the Union Address — sanctity is realized by doing one’s
work with the greatest human perfection, for the love of God. In
this way, you are performing opus Dei — the “work of God.”
The late Father
Josemaria’s path is currently toward sainthood. He is now known
as Blessed Josemaria, beatified in 1992. Accounts of his
intercession are many. He has the Lord’s ear, and has given me
the benefit of that closeness.
Blessed Josemaria
emphasized the importance of the sacraments as means of grace. He
placed particular emphasis on the sacrament of reconciliation, by
which the human tendency to put one’s own will and pleasure
before those of God is gradually rooted out. So, it’s not
surprising to me that of all the things I have prayed to Blessed
Josemaria about, the conversion of lost sheep through confession
are the prayers which the Lord has answered.
As an example, let me
tell you about Michael: an elderly gentleman who lived near our
family when I was growing up. He was fastidious about his
landscaping — lawn, shrubbery and plants were cared for
meticulously. But, Michael, a fallen away Catholic, was not so
meticulous in his spiritual life. He left the Church as a teen,
after a bad experience with a priest in confession.
My family was so blessed with the riches of the Faith. Why, I
thought, couldn’t Michael share in this? He would be so much
happier! Why couldn’t he see?
After Msgr. Escrivá
died in 1975, I saw my big chance to help bring about a change of
heart. Convinced of Blessed Josemaria’s closeness to God, I
immediately began to pray through his intercession for Michael’s
conversion.
Three years later, on the first Sunday of August 1978, my parents
were having one of their rare conversations with Michael and his
wife. Ironically, they were talking about the Church, the pope and
the line of succession. Later that day, Michael’s wife told my
father she had just heard in a special news bulletin that Pope
Paul VI had died. My father told her, “You know, Michael is
going to die one day too.” Shortly afterward, Michael told my
father he wanted to go to confession. My father arranged for
Father Ron Gillis, a priest of Opus Dei, to come to Michael’s
home and hear his confession — seventy years after that bad
experience as a teen. A few months later, Michael died at the age
of eighty-seven.
Because I had prayed
for Michael, the effect of his conversion on my own faith was
profound. I had prayed for this intention, believing that it would
happen, and it did! Indeed, that conversion is my insurance policy
that faith is real. The Lord does work in our lives; and those who
have gone before us, marked with the sign of faith, can intercede
for us.
I have also prayed for
the conversion of other souls — with equal results. Currently, I
am working on the toughest nut of them all. Another priest of Opus
Dei — Fr. C. John McCloskey — told me he “will be here
waiting” for my friend, that my prayers “will bring him in.”
Michael’s conversion
convinced me of the truth of those words. |
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Blessed
Josemaria placed particular emphasis on the sacrament of
reconciliation, by which the human tendency to put one's
own will and pleasure before those of God is gradually
rooted out. |
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